I've loved horses for as long as I can remember. I was a lucky 9 year old girl growing up in the woods of New Hampshire and had an amazing Chincoteague pony named Penny Wise. She taught me how to ride and jump and was my best friend when my parents got divorced and my brother went away to boarding school.
Though I loved my pony with all of my being, I was taught in the traditional old school mentality of "show 'em who's boss." Use your spurs and your crop and get out your whips and chains when met with resistance.
Seeing the white's of a horse's eye meant they were scared and would likely do something dangerous and so you'd better be prepared and use all the force and dominance or bribery required to get them to "cooperate." Get in the trailer! Go over the jump! Stand still while we clip the hair in your ears or your muzzle or all over your body!
Horses were "bad," or "naughty" if they didn't want to be caught or haltered. The bits we put in our horse's mouths could be swapped for more severe designs if our horses didn't listen to us when we pulled on the reins to slow down. My trainer had me ride my pony in a double twisted wire snaffle. I fell off more times than I can remember and landed more than once in the middle of a jump when my pony stopped short at the base instead of going over the obstacle.
I had a long hiatus from riding and returned to horses as a young adult in my early 30's. I picked up right where I left off and bought a gorgeous thoroughbred. One of my instructors liked to say, "Don't go to war without your weapons." After finding myself in familiar situations like not being able to get my horse back into the trailer to go home, and having to use spurs and crops to get through a jump course, I decided this was not how I wanted to be treating these incredible animals that I so loved and revered. Perhaps I was the problem! Finally I decided there had to be a better way.
I wanted to start over with a clean slate. I rescued a PMU foal and was determined to do things differently. I discovered Natural Horsemanship and set out to "start" my filly and not "break" her. I learned that horses are prey and humans are predators. Trust, respect and leadership are essential and can only be earned. My journey toward enlightenment had begun!
I worked with many instructors and clinicians. Read books, listened to tapes, (yes, cassettes!) and watched many videos. Then one day in late 2011, I discovered Anna Twinney and Melisa Pearce. They were co-facilitating a three day retreat called, "From Fear To Love," and offered an evening open to the public in Longmont, Colorado. I lived in nearby Boulder and went with my friend James to get a glimpse of their individual work.
I was captivated by them both. Anna's incorporation of body language, energy and telepathy when engaging with the horses was magic. It was true harmony and partnership like I had never witnessed. The horses were given a voice and were clearly honored in her approach.
Melisa's ability to recognize and bring forth the healing nature of the horses and their gifts of insight, honesty and the power to open us up to our inner wisdom through braving vulnerability and dropping our armor was astounding.
I embarked on both of their certification programs in 2012. I graduated from Melisa's Equine Gestalt Coaching Method program in 2014. And completed Anna's Reach Out To Horses Trainer's program in 2015. Shortly thereafter, my husband Bart and I moved from the mountains of Colorado to a beautiful horse farm on Maryland's Eastern Shore.
Airy Hill Stables in a place where you can come to discover what horses have to share with you! Through their powerful presence and their mastery of living in the present moment, they offer their hearts and their honest reflections - without judgement - of what they see when they look at us. There is so much to gain from time with these amazing beings.
Contact us today to schedule your time with some of our incredible equines.
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